I was told by a Japanese Scientist and good friend that you need at least three in a sample size to make an informed decision about something… FOB’s are very traditional in the fact that they date to marry, they are not aware of a lot of the stereotypes and they do not know American culture very well. and they tend to be pretty shy when it comes to women. They are open to some new things but prefer to stick with what they know.
at least, preferably more than that, but at least three can give you an idea. I have been considered quite an expert on the subject of dating Asian men and Chinese men, particularly. As for women, they are pretty open to different women as long as the woman likes them, but they are pretty shy so you may not know if they even are interested in you.
I'm more into white chicks personally, but in my experience, I don't think americanized asian girls are any harder to game than the fobby ones.
As a matter of fact, I'd say the fobbier ones are harder to game because they're not really socialized.
Look, I lived with my husband during his education and some days I wouldn’t even see him until late at night or during mealtimes; even our weekend movie date nights weren’t always a sure thing if he had a major deadline or project coming up.
“Katie” wrote that she met a Chinese research assistant with a Ph D at a nearby university in North America, but is frustrated because he’s so busy and often cancels their plans.
“I want to somehow tell him that I feel frustrated that he can’t find a good time to hang out with me, but I was wondering if you might have any ideas or suggestions on how to do it without causing him to disappear.” My husband’s graduate education in the US has schooled me in the many challenges that Chinese face when they choose to study or do research abroad.
We’ve all heard the jokes that Ph D stands for “piled higher and deeper” and all the horror stories of graduate student life.
Well, on top of the usual obstacles of graduate/research life, Chinese also have to navigate their education in a foreign language and culture and often encounter discrimination.